STEIN ARAFIENA ONYANGO!

I dedicate my post today to a friend, brother,once a neighbour, one very humble and full of energy individual i got the pleasure to know! He left us last week Saturday and i'm sure he is in a much better place! If you can hear me Stein, I MISS YOU!...Look out for us! RIP!
A moment of silence!!! See you on the other side dear...



You never know, the time place or hour...so:
1. Appreciate the little things in life.
2. Say 'i love you' more often.
3. Smile
4. Say thank you, please and excuse me.
5. Say a prayer before you sleep.
6. Say I'm sorry, ask for forgiveness.
7. Say hi, good morning even to people you don't know.
8. Give back to society.
9. Forgive.
10. Live, love laugh!!!


My Grandpa, Charles Fiesta, Farah Mohammed....
You can add to the list...xoxo!

No apologies...

Funny how inspiration hits us at the weirdest of times. I was on my way to work yesterday morning, stuck in traffic on Mombasa Rd. Couldn't get time to put it up though because i swamped as is usual with Mondays. Today, I'm not so busy and i thought why not?!
So yesterday i remembered this house party i had attended not so long ago and some girl had a fall out with her boyfriend and woke up the next day her eyes really swollen from crying all night. Those eye bags were big, she needed shades to hide under.
It got me thinking of where we have to draw the line....
-If he makes you cry
-If he takes up all your energy
-If he holds your hand too tight its painful
-If he is not your shoulder to cry on
-If he is an asswipe, douchebag or lowlife...excuse the lingo!
Compromise when you have to, do not be a doormat, stand your ground. I am 23 freaking years old, no way I'm changing now for anyone! I am not venting, lol, maybe i am...who cares? Do you? Didn't think so...
Do not say i love you first
Do not text or call first
Do not beg
Do not sleep with him if you're not ready
Always demand respect....
If he falls short, let him go and have no apologies! xoxo!