Monday, August 29, 2011

Heartbroken...


*sob sob* but this time with an with an attitude!!! Insert: Beyonce's song- Best thing i never had.
Are you wrong about love again?! What does karma have on you? Does it puzzle you?!...
Dedication to all you women who build walls around your heart and break them down when you think you have found the one and only, only for your heart to be broken. They say, "Beware of the man who sweeps you off your feet, he is in the perfect position to drop you on your ass!"

Here are tell tell signs that he is just not that into you...Or he is just not the one for you!


1. He's not trying to see you.
If there is one thing guys have made clear, it's that if they want to see you, they'll find a way. If you find yourself doing most of the inviting and planning, maybe you should take a step back and figure out why. It could just be that he's lazy and likes the fact that you're planning everything (entirely different issue), but if you're in the beginning of a relationship, it most likely means he's not that into it. Quit making plans and see what happens.

2. He only wants to see you for "you know what."
This is pretty simple. If after one or two legitimate dates your subsequent relationship has consisted of calls, texts and hangouts past 9pm, you might want to question his intentions. Again, if a guy likes you he will want to learn more about you, before he gets to know you in the, ahem, biblical sense.

3. You haven't been introduced to his friends/ family.
No, it's not that he wants to keep you all to himself. Be honest with yourself. When he likes you, he's going to want to show you off and see what his friends and family think about you. By introducing you to his friends, who are presumably a big part of his life, it shows that he wants to include you in all aspects of his life.

4. He doesn't remember important things about you.
This is a big one. If he really is in to you, he'll make sure to remember the details. And I'm not talking your birthday; that is a requirement. Little things, like maybe you have a big presentation at work and he wishes you luck, or you have an exam. Small gestures like these indicate he really values you and wants you to feel special.

5. He leaves you wondering about everything
One of the great truths about men, is this: "We are not complicated". If a guy wants you, you’ll know it. There won’t be any mystery. The phone will ring. An e-mail will show up. He will indicate a clear willingness for greater proximity. If that’s not happening, you’re not getting all his attention.

6.It takes him longer than 24 hours to return your calls or texts
The fact is, you really like him, and he’s really not so great about getting back to you when you call. A few hours is one thing. The length of a workday is acceptable. More than 24 hours, though, and he hasn’t called back? Unless he’s an undercover cop or a submariner, it means he’s blowing you off.

7. When you're sad and can't turn to him for comfort.
When you're a giant ball of tears and snot, do you lock yourself into the bathroom so he can't see you at your worst? If you're worried about scaring him away, one of you isn't ready for total commitment. Mr. Right should make you smile through your tears, and be a calming, not stressful presence.

8. He avoids conflict at any cost.
Fighting is healthy. And, when done right (in the non-accusatory, rational sort of way), it can be a great way to air grievances, fix problems in your relationship and come to a deeper understanding of each other. Ignoring problems is not the same as having no problems at all... even if it looks that way.

9. You don't trust him.
A small dose of jealousy can be healthy, but if you're hacking into his email account, and you keep snooping around his wall on facebook, something's wrong. If there's something about him that truly warrants your distrust, then perhaps he's not the right one for you.

10. He has a list of things he needs you to stop doing/saying/wearing if he wants your relationship to work.
If he is fixating on your flaws, you are either not the one he wants or he is not ready for a serious relationship. Cutting him loose allows you time to grow and gives you the opportunity to meet a guy who can embrace—or at least accept your flaws.


Do not turn a blind eye to these signs!

Have you ever tried sleeping with a broken heart....haha, Good luck!
Do not despair though, the sun will shine tomorrow...xoxo!

Monday, August 15, 2011

Sweet dreams.....NOT!

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Good morning bloggers! I'm up early today, yes...this is early for me, in fact I'm still sipping on my coffee.
Today, I woke up wanting to tell you all about dreams, my weird dreams and blah, blah, blah...I'll get to it no worries. Before that though, was reading the Saturday magazine and the article on 'can women detach feelings i.e their emotions from the physical' caught my eye!
Two women there give their opinions on the topic and both of them say they have no problem with casual sex and forgetting all about it. Two of them however admit to thinking they could do it but later find themselves entangled in their emotions.
I don't know about you, but my take is that shit is hard! I am not really the casual sex kind, and if i was it would have to be with somebody i did not know, never met before to avoid the connection. But then still, why would i want to sleep with someone i do not know? Hmm...just not for me!
Touchy topic, and I will not get any more into it...Lets head straight to my dreams!
Dreams according to Google are successions of images, ideas, emotions and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.
Everyone dreams (even if we don’t always remember them after the fact) and researchers have found that the majority of us have dreams with similar themes.
A while back, i had this constant dream almost every night about falling, i never hit the ground though, i would get startled and wake up. This dream was later replaced by a being chased dream. I don't know who was chasing me, but i was always running. Then, the other night i had a dream I was in a car and it was falling off a cliff after the brakes failed. Feeling a little concerned i sought to find out what was going on and this is what i found...

10. Car Flying Off Cliff Dream

In these types of dreams you are usually in or near a car or some other type of vehicle which is out of control or has other problems that seem insurmountable. For example, the brakes may have failed, you may have lost control of the steering, or be heading over a cliff or crashing. You can either be the driver or the passenger. This is a very common type of nightmare and it occurs in all people – not just those who can drive. This dream usually means that you are feeling powerless over something in your life – or that you are heading for a crash (metaphorically speaking).

9.Faulty Machinery Dream


In the faulty machinery dream you are trying to operate mechanical equipment which either fails to work, or fails to work in the way that you expect it to. The vast majority of these dreams involve a telephone – either trouble dialing, losing a connection, or dialing a wrong number. It can involve a lost Internet connection, or something manual like a jammed or broken machine. This dream often means that you feel you are losing touch with reality, or that a part of your body or mind is not functioning as it should. It can also occur when you are feeling anxious about making a connection with another person in real life.

8. Lost or Trapped Dream


Dreaming about being lost is very common and will usually occur when you are having conflict in deciding how to react in a situation in real life. In the dream you are trying to find your way out of an area – such as a forest, city streets, a large building, or other maze-like structure. Another way this dream plays out involves you being trapped, buried alive, caught in a web, or unable to move for some other reason. This is often accompanied by a feeling of terror. This dream usually means that you are trapped in real life – unable to make the right choice.

7. Missed a Bus or Plane Dream


In this type of dream you are rushing to catch a bus, train, plane, or other type of public transport – but you miss it – usually by a fraction of a second. Rather than feeling fear in this dream, you usually feel frustration. This dream can also occur in a different form, in which you arrive late for an important performance or sporting event that you are supposed to participate in, only to find that the event has already begun. This dream usually means that you feel that you have missed out on an important opportunity in your real life. It will often occur when you are struggling over an important decision.

6. Failing a Test Dream

This dream usually manifests itself in people who have been out of school for a long time. In the dream you are prevented from passing a test in a variety of different possible scenarios. In one scenario you find that you are unable to make it to the test on time, often through being unable to find the test room. In other versions you are unprepared (either through lack of study) or you are missing equipment. This dream usually means that you are feeling tested in some way in your real life. You may feel that you are unprepared for something or playing the wrong part in life.

5. Ill or Dying Dream


In this dream, you (or a loved one) are ill, injured, or dying. It is a moderately common dream and, not surprisingly, occurs often at the onset of an illness. Aside from becoming ill, this dream can mean that you are emotionally hurt or are afraid of becoming hurt. The dream may also be warning you of an upcoming physical risk to yourself or a loved one. When it is someone else in the dream that dies, it can mean that you feel that part of yourself (that you see represented by that person) is dead. It may also mean that you wish the person would go away, or that you fear losing them.

4. Being Chased Dream

Dreaming of being chased can be a truly horrifying experience. Most often the chaser is a monster or some person that is frightening, and occasionally it may be an animal. You may be surprised to know that this is the most commonly experienced nightmare theme. The meaning of these dreams is that someone, something (possibly something as obscure as an emotion) is making you feel threatened. One way to determine the root of the threat is to ask yourself who or what in your real life most closely resembles the “creature” or circumstance in your dream. It is also worth noting that sometimes this dream is a replay of an actual event in your life.

3. Bad or Missing Teeth Dream

Teeth dreams are fairly common and they usually involve the discovery of extremely decayed or missing teeth in your own mouth. Sometimes you will dream that you open your mouth and your teeth begin to fall out. The fact that the majority of people today have reasonable teeth (perhaps with the exception of the British), it is not surprising that we feel so emotionally disturbed by these dreams. So, what does it mean when we dream about missing teeth? At the most basic level it means that we are afraid of being found unattractive. At a deeper level, it can signify a fear of embarrassment or a loss of power in real life. Oh – I was just kidding about the “British” thing!

2. Nudity Dream

In this type of dream you are in a state of undress, partial undress, or inappropriate dress (for example wearing pajamas to work). Occasionally you are the witness of another person who is naked while you are clothed. This is often accompanied by feelings of embarrassment and shame, but occasionally with the feeling of pride or freedom. The meaning of this dream is that you are feeling exposed, awkward, or vulnerable, or you are afraid that you have revealed too much of yourself (such as a secret or a very personal feeling) in a real life situation. An interesting fact about this type of dream is that it occurs much more frequently in people who are involved in a wedding ceremony in their real life.

1. Falling or Sinking

We have all had falling dreams – it is such a common dream, in fact, that myths have arisen over them; the most common myth is, of course, that you will die if you hit the ground in the dream. I can assure you, having hit the ground in more than one falling dream, that this is not true at all. In the falling dream we are usually falling through the air and frightened. Occasionally we may be sinking in water (and in danger of drowning). Typically a person having this dream is feeling insecure or lacking in support in their waking life. These dreams often occur when you are overwhelmed in life and feel ready to give up. If you have this dream you should evaluate your current situation and try to locate the problem that is overwhelming you. Deal with it and this dream should go away.


0. Pregnancy Dream
If the dreamer is a woman and you dream you are pregnant then you will see a big increase in your income, but if you are unwed and sad you will experience losses. For a man to dream that he is the father of the child he is warned about indiscriminate sexual relations and one night stands.

Well what do you know? My three weird dreams are here! Are yours here too? Let me know...
I am not really the superstitious kind much...but this was kinda un-nerving i had to tell...Have a dream aware day, xoxo!

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Every girl's dream...

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Today we are all(referring to all the ladies) going to dream, of what you ask? That D-day!!!
Fantasize all you want, i have and I'm going to share my fantasy with you! I have loved weddings all my life, my mum says i have everything in place...venue, dress, guests, cake, rings...everything! Just the groom and money to make it a reality are missing! She is right, last weekend on Samantha's bridal was all about those women who have everything about their wedding day all planned out to the last detail...i think i fall in this category, and my bet is most of you beautiful ladies do too.
Today, i let you in on my dream day...

1. My favourite colour is red! Red goes well with balck which is my other favourite colour and a wedding is not a wedding without the colour white. And so, my theme for my big day is red, black and white!

2. I'd love to get married in church, but the movement from the church to the photo session and later reception in this economy not forgetting traffic in Nairobi is a bit challenging so garden wedding it is.
Exchange of vows...written and read individually preferably!

Not exactly, but its the closest pic i got to what i dream of!

3. Reception...

Something of the sort but outdoors.

4. Groomsmen...

Saw this pic and loved it, i only wish they were in black and in red bowties!

5. Bridesmaids...

Not exactly those dresses but something of the sort!

6. Flower girls...


7. Ring bearer...

Focus on the cute small boy, aawww!

8. Ring pillow...


9. Cake...


10. Car...

I wouldn't mind a horse drawn carriage though :]


11. Bouquet...


12. Groom...


13. Bride...

Front view!


Back view!

This is not exactly what i envision but it came close. I prefer halter dresses to tube, and i don't like the cinderella look either...it has to have red somewhere!
Or this.....mermaid dress!


14. Shoes...

I'll rob a bank for a pair of christian louboutin heels.

15. The honeymoon...

Hawaii, Paris, Zanzibar, South Africa....wherever!

Call me crazy but its not bad for a girl to dream....go ahead!
This is the first part of the 3part 'every girl's dream' keep it here for the other two parts!
Xoxo...

Thursday, August 4, 2011

High Society...


Paul Johnson-Calderon is an American socialite, reality show participant, and columnist known for starring along side Tinsley Mortimer in The CW's television series High Society. He has been coined by High Society as the Page Six scandal boy[New York Times].Calderon was the only male cast member on the show.
He has a close relationship with his mother[more like he is a momma's boy] He is openly gay, and had dated a hot male model during the show.
I'm focussing on his style today, watched the first series of High Society, wasn't that bad and not that good either but anyway, P.J.C's style caught my eye! All through i was thinking how I'd love him for a friend...his only downside is that he depends on his mother for money and stuff, i digress! He doesn't seem like such a bad person...my opinion!

Paul Johnson Cauldron is like a present waiting to be unwrapped. The guy knows how to wear a bowtie. Obviously,Paul has taken the tie and made it his signature look....Thought there was only one way to sport a bowtie?! Think again! I have never seen anyone come up with more variations on an old classic...
New York guest of a guest, refers to him as king of bowties and i do not disagree!










Xoxo!

Sunday, July 31, 2011

25 Fittest Men in the world...

Well, according to the 2011 issue of Men's Health magazine!

1.Chris Evans

Born June 13, 1981- The 30yr old is an actor best known for his starring role in the comic book movie, Captain America.

2. Alex O'laughlin

Born August 24, 1976- The 34yr old is an Australian actor currently starring in the series Hawaii Five-O.

3. Jordy Smith

Born Feb 11, 1988- The 23yr old is a South African professional surfer.

4. Lebron James

Born December 30, 1984- The 26yr old is an American professional basketball player for the Miami heat, NBA.

5. Henry Cavill

Born May 5, 1983- The 28yr old is an actor and has appeared on the showtime series, Tudors. He has also been cast as superman in the film man of steel(2013)

6.Liam Neeson

Born June 7, 1952- The 59yr old ia an Irish actor starring in the movie Unknown and several others.

7. Steven Stamkos

Born February 7, 1990- The 21yr old is a Canadian professional ice hockey player currently playing for the Tampa Bay Lightning.

8.Nick Ferroni

Couldn't get much info about him, just that he is 32yrs old and is a teacher in New Jersey.

9. Joel McHale

Born November 20, 1971- The 39yr old is a standup comedian, actor and writer.

10. Daniel Macaskill

Born December 23, 1985- The 26yr old is a Scottish stunt cyclist.

11. Lorenzo Fertitta

A 43yr old American business man, casino executive, sports promoter, entrepreneur and owner of UFC.

12. Michael Fassbender

Born April 2, 1977- The 34yr old is an actor. He wa a spartan in the movie 300 and stars as Magneto in X-men first class.

13. Joe Manganiello

Born December 28, 1976- The 34yr old is an actor and plays werewolf on the HBO television series True Blood.

14. Bradely Cooper

Born January 5, 1975- The 36yr old is an American actor known for his roles in the films The Hangover, A-Team, Limitless....I must he is HOT!

15. Kellan Lutz

Born March 15, 1985- The 26yr old is an American fashion model and actor known for playing Cullen in the Twilight series! "Damn!!!"

16. Greg Hill
Nothing on him, no pics...just know that he skis and is a modern day adventurer who finds himself up in the mountains on skin tracks and shredding off summits.

17. Tim Kennedy

Born September 1, 1979- The 31yr old is an American mixed martial artist.

18. David Beckham

Born May 2, 1975- The 36yr old is an English footballer who plays mid-field for L.A Galaxy.

19. Jason Momoa

Born August 1, 1979- The 31yr old is an American actor and model, he appears in the 2011 HBO series Game of Thrones.

20. Chris Pine

Born August 26, 1980- The 30yr old is an American actor and has appeared in the movie Unstoppable.

21. Dr.Dre

Born February 18, 1965- The 46yr old is an American record producer, rapper and CEO of Aftermath Ent.

22. Jeremy Renner

Born January 7, 1971- The 40yr old is an actor and musician.

23. Derek Poundstone

Born September 28, 1981- The 29yr old is an American strongman athlete.

24. Chip Wade
An expert craftsman from Atlanta.

25. Clay Matthews

Born May 14, 1986- The 25yr old is an American footballer for the Green Bay Packers.

I can't help but wonder why the likes of Ll Cool J., 50Cent, Tyrese, Mario Lopez, Mechad Brooks, Walker Wahlberg, Robert Buckley, Robert Pattison, Taylor Lautner...ARE NOT ON THIS LIST?! *Humph*

Enjoy,xoxo!