Sunday, March 16, 2014

Life Lessons...


Of things no one tells us about; no matter who tries to teach you lessons about life, you won't understand until you go through it on your own!
I finally tried the quail egg, doesn't taste any different from the normal egg but there was a slight whiff of bird poop, no? Maybe it's just me. Well, now i feel wiser, looks like all that has been said about that egg is true...ha! Again, boredom in a jav on Uhuru Highway inspired this post.

1.Love doesn't come easy, it needs work and lots of give and take. Unlike love for our parents where most of us just receive and most times is unconditional, love for your significant other can suck balls at times especially with the disagreements.

2.No one tells us just how much heartbreak hearts, or how empty loss of a loved leaves you, or even how much child birth hurts( still not certain how much by experience, but from hear say, it is pretty much!)

3.Pretenses in relationships and especially marriage become a normal thing after some time.

4.Friendships and relationships don't last forever, cherish them while you still can because people tend to grow apart a lot!

5.There are no perfect relationships. At least now they tell us to work on an imperfect one to get there, but a heads up would've been nice.

6. You can forgive a cheating spouse, it is normal. Many people do it, FOLLOW YOUR GUT FEELING,at the end of the day, only your happiness matters.

7.Take it from me, soul mates don't exist. Explain how you break-up with someone you believed was the one,only to fall head over heels with someone else?

8.Forgive, forgive, forgive and if you can, forget. Only way to be truly happy!

9.They tell us to be friends with the good people and leave the bad ones. Now I know how to find the good in people and ignore their bad traits.

10.Don't be the planner type, wing it most of the time i.e just go with it.

And do listen to your parents, almost all they say about life is true! "television will still be there,even better after you finish school" is a memorable line from my ol' man, didn't buy it then, but i sure do now.

Other people's thoughts...
1.Time has a wonderful way of showing us what really matters.
2.You can keep going long after you think you can't.
3.Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you.
4.Follow your heart, but take your brain with you.
5.Positive thoughts generate positive feelings and attract positive life experiences.