MY DAD!

Takes me back to Bruno Mars' song- Grenade! Not the whole song just some part. '....I’d catch a grenade for ya, Throw my hand on a blade for ya, I’d jump in front of a train for ya, You know I'd do anything for ya, I would go through all this pain, Take a bullet straight through my brain....'
I know we listen to this song and most of us go, yeah, yeah! yeah right! But i would, for only one person and that is the above named! Okay, maybe not all, and not literally either but come to think of it if any of those things happened (P.S-i have no idea what movie we'd be starring in)...i would!
Anyways, my dad is the most big hearted, generous, kind, loving, hardworking, honest and most down to earth and humble man i know! maybe you're going like...'yeah, so is my dad! whats so special?' This is my blog, my space...go write yours! OOps, jk! A bit of history traces him back to the early 80's when as he says he left his father's house with only a green canvas bag of his clothes, left for the big city with just hopes he would do so much for himself.
He left my mum behind who had then just had their first born daughter, my elder sister! My mum joined him a while later in Nairobi, where i was born and my brother soon followed.My dad worked tirelessly to provide for his family, i wouldn't say that we ever lacked anything.
I got my 1st bicycle, thanks to him, sadly he did not get to teach me how to ride it. I learnt how to drive at the tender age of 13, taught me everything i know about cars, encouraged my love for swimming by taking us swimming every Saturday! Every Sunday was family fun day, took us everywhere. Came to all my visiting days in school, bought me all my phones to my newest one just the other day.Dropped me off and picked me up at all Chaguo la Teeniez Awards events(back in High School), Took me to my first rave, immediately after high school, bought me my first alcoholic drink (redds....don't laugh!)Buys my mum gifts randomly and loves her to bits!
He is very adventurous, has taken us everywhere he goes(or at least most of the time). He weirdly knows all the clubs anywhere and everywhere, used to take us karaoke singing at pizza gardens, don't know why he stopped though (I'm i that bad a singer?) Almost forgot,he saw me through University and I'll be forever indebted to him! I don't know of a perfect gift to give him as a show of appreciation, maybe a Range Rover Sport?(my dream car) Just maybe....
In a nutshell, my dad is awesome and i love him to death!!! I am who and what i am because of him....Long live my dad and all other awesome dads out there! With Father's day just around the corner...I9th June, this Sunday...let him know he is loved!
Xoxo!

BBMA's

Justin Bieber and his girl Selena Gomez...



Beyonce

Rihanna

Kelly


Keri


Mary J.Blige


Nicki

Taylor

Michelle Williams


I hear Britney Spears and bad girl Rihanna locked lips.....be the judge!

21st Century Girl...

My inspiration today is drawn from Willow Smith's 21st century girl song! I like it, got me thinking about how women keep going on about equality, i say forget equality and DIY! Specifically in the dating scene, if he wont approach you....you approach him! Its the 21st century....here are a few tips! Days are long gone where you die inside ALONE!

Ever see a guy so gorgeous that he makes you melt? Well, i have... A quick daydream flashed through my head of me and that gorgeous guy frolicking down the street off into the sunset…then reality hit me.I turned away and quietly walked the other way hoping he didn’t catch me slobber. “Why couldn’t I just say something to him?” is what i was pondering. All women go through this at some point in their life but it doesn’t have to be that way!

That Tyrese Gibson....or Trey Songz....whatever tickles your fancy :]




How to Approach him:
STEP 1: Make the first move- Guys love it when a girl is genial and approachs them, partly because then they wouldn’t have to do all the work. It shows him right off the bat that you’re interested and that takes a lot of the pressure off him. If you dont know how to make the first move then try to take interest in what he does such as if he likes football, start watching it. Why do you think i like Manchester United? hmmm? Or maybe you could ask him about things he likes and talk to him, take interest in him and most likely he will take interest in you.

STEP 2: Be confident. If you appear confident to your guy, he will think you are confident; it’s that easy as 1-2-3. Walk up to him like you own the ground you walk on. BEWARE: Do not come across as so confident that it may be mistaken for the I-am-better-than-you-bow-down-at-my-feet arrogance!

STEP 3: Compliment him- Not to mention a slick little compliment is a good ice breaker! You could tell him how good he looks in the shirt he’s wearing. I know what your thinking; how cliché! It may seem that way from a girl’s perspective but for a guy, what’s going through his head is, "Wow. Hot girl, Likes my shirt".

STEP 4: Give him the look- It is very crucial that you get it right; if done the wrong way, this could lead to possible jail time. “The Look” is a certain look that you have that says, “I want you to notice me.” It is important to first make eye contact with your guy and then lay it on him. This is your sexiest, most mysterious look that will only last few a few seconds so as to leave him breathless and wanting more (this is the ‘hook’). A little warning ladies, we do not want this turning into a creepy stalker girl case and have you end up behind bars. So for everyone’s well being, a few seconds will do!

STEP 5: Be alone when you approach your guy. Be sure when you approach your guy, it’s not with a clique of your friends behind you. First of all, this is very high school of you, secondly it will scare your guy away. Talk about coercion! Although I’m sure your friends are very affable, they should not accompany you this time (save that for the bathroom trip). Your guy will feel more at ease if it’s just one on one. This will also give you guys a chance to get to know each other without having any interruptions.

STEP 6: At your own risk, get his number, call him up with the "I don't usually do this" line, lmao!!! Anyhow, if you can get his number, good for you. But don't go overboard flashing, calling all the time and bombarding him with texts....we know its a shilling per text but take it slow, give him space to miss your presence. And most importantly, be charming!!!

All the best my 21st century girls....xoxo!

New leaf...

Sitting here, all alone....thinking! about life, about me, about people, basically i'm just bored! Realised that at times we want so much out of life and rarely do we make that much effort to get there. So today, i'm turning on a new leaf; Im very poor at relationships, all of them! Il work harder at them, keep in touch with all my friends, try commitment(big hurdle) but il try!
By default im watching he is just not that into you the fourth time, switched on the telly and voila! Maybe, its a sign trying to tell me something...lol, whatever it is, thankyou because now i have something to say on my blog!

That Scarlett Johansson is Hot- No homo...i repeat no homo! just appreciating beauty!


Beautiful...


Hot...


Sexy...


Xoxo!!!

Hats at the royal weeding!!!

From awesome to outrageous! Not necessarily in that order...

Nicki.....My Hero!

One and only Minaj! I like her, her style and especially her hair. Onika Tanya Maraj (born December 8, 1984), better known by her stage name Nicki Minaj,was born and raised in Saint James,a suburb of Trinidad and Tobago's capital city Port of Spain. Her parents were of Indian and Afro-Trinidadian ancestry.
The picture to your left is how my hero showed up at the 2011 Grammy's....prints head to toe. I don't necessarily like it, but i don't hate it either!
My post today though is all about her hair...